Me When They Say They’ll “Check with Their Partner First” — It’s a $75 Sample Fee (Start a clothing brand, they said…)
- The Idea Lab
- 2 days ago
- 3 min read
Updated: 1 day ago
You quote a $75 sample fee.
And suddenly… silence.
A slow blink. A “Thanks, we’ll just check with our partner and get back to you.”
As if you just asked them to co-sign a mortgage.
As if $75 didn’t just buy them dinner and two cocktails last Friday.
If you’ve been here — supplier, agent, manufacturer, or even just a bystander at the other end of a WeChat group chat — you know this moment. It’s sacred. It’s tragic. It’s always followed by either ghosting… or a 1,200-word email about “reallocating budget.”
And look — I get it.
If you’re new to this, $75 might feel like a lot for “just a sample.” You haven’t seen the product yet. You’re still building your brand. Your partner might actually be real (shoutout to the ones who are).
But if the words “start a clothing brand” have ever passed your lips, it’s time for some lovingly blunt advice:
You cannot build a legit fashion brand on the same budget you used for Canva Pro and oat milk lattes.
Samples cost money. Good ones usually cost a little more.
And it’s not because suppliers are greedy — it’s because they’re working. Sampling is time, materials, testing, and setup. Even that $75 quote? Half the time, it’s not even profitable for them. It’s a filter.
A quiet way of asking:
“Are you serious?”
Because when you hesitate over a basic sample fee, what the factory often hears is:
“This person might not be ready to move forward.”
“This person might ask 19 follow-up questions and never place a bulk order.”
“This person thinks product development is like ordering sushi — fast, cheap, and delivered.”
I’ve been in the garment industry for 15+ years. I’ve seen every kind of client — the big dreamers, the hustlers, the perfectionists, the ghosters, the spreadsheet-obsessed, the logo-before-fabric folks.
And here’s the honest truth:
The ones who succeed are the ones who show up prepared — and who understand that sourcing costs money.
Not a lot. But some.
If $75 is the hill, your brand isn’t dying on — it’s stalling on it.
This is why I built Garment Sourcing 101 — to help you not be that client.
The one who gets ghosted because they ask too many vague questions.
The one who loses supplier trust before they’ve even seen a swatch.
The one who thinks “getting quotes” is the same as building a production plan.
Garment Sourcing 101 is the survival guide I wish most new founders had.
It’s not fluff. It’s real-world workflows, email templates, what-to-say-when tips, and the exact mindset shift that separates “aspiring founder” from “brand in motion.”
Because here’s the thing most people forget when they start a clothing brand:
Your suppliers are deciding whether you’re worth it, too.
Not just the other way around.
If you show up with a blurry vision board, unclear expectations, and resistance to every dollar of spend — they’re going to move on.
To the founder who had a proper tech pack.
To the one who asked good questions.
To the one who didn’t flinch at a reasonable sample fee — because they understood it’s part of the process.
And no — this doesn’t mean you need a massive budget.
It just means you need to use it smartly.
Invest where it matters. A good sample isn’t a luxury — it’s a diagnostic tool. It tells you if your design is viable. If your communication was clear. If your supplier understood the brief.
You’re not just paying for a physical object.
You’re paying to test your process — and set the tone for the working relationship.
And honestly? The founder who’s willing to spend $75 on that has already passed one of the biggest tests in the supplier’s eyes:
You’re taking it seriously.
So if you’ve ever caught yourself hesitating at a sample fee, or uttering the immortal phrase, “Let me check with my partner” (when you are the partner)…
Let this be your sign: it’s time to get your sourcing game in order.
No shame. No judgement. Just a loving nudge to level up.
Because that brand you’ve been dreaming about?
It’s not built on perfect logos, mockups, or 6-month launch timelines.
It’s built on action. Preparedness. And yes — the occasional $75 sample fee.
If you’re ready to stop stalling and start sourcing like a pro, Garment Sourcing 101 is your next click.
It’s not just about saving money. It’s about using it well.
And if your partner needs convincing… send them this. Or better yet — just be the kind of founder who doesn’t need permission to take the first step.

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